Thank you all for the sweet birthday messages and comments, I saw all of your messages on Instagram and other social media platforms. Every year is a new one for me to learn something new. Growing up as a matured woman comes with so many challenges, especially coming from African community where people only respect those who have kids and who are married and thinks if you don’t have kids, not married at a certain age you are a shame to the family. Mostly Nigerians! (Smh) like I said before life is not all about kids and kids. There is much more to that. As a person I respect people choices and life changing decisions. I strictly stand against those who judge what they don’t know. This days social media gave people who cannot afford to pay your bills or help in any situation the opportunity to be negative. (Foolishness is not trendy) It will never be! It is funny how we have too many people claiming and acting like GOD to judge others.
Some of the life lessons I have learn so far helps me on a daily basis! Life is not easy to figure out your way. But having positive mind and holding on to faith helps.
As I grow older I know those will have been there for me and those who will never have anything nice to add but will cause trouble.
I am thankful for everything that I have and including the ones I don’t have! I have chosen a long time ago to stay on a positive lane with good traffic.
Looking back in life, there are things that does not add up, I simply cross them out. And move onto the next.
Fear, hate, discouragement, bad judgement are members of the same family! Call their bluff. As soon as you do so, that is where life begins.
The weather was very hot so I had to wear easy and simple outfits majority of the time.
I got this lovely pinstripe culottes from Asos and took it with me on holiday, the top i wore is my old one from DVF . I love culottes! They are just the perfect chic trouser to wear, but it can be very trick finding the perfect pair. Each time i find the one i like i just don’t let it get away! I chose yellow to and pink heels because i knew it will be the perfect colours together, the culottes is not a white colour the colour is like milk colour! I took these photos in Nice near the apartment we stayed.
Photos by Ian Anderson